Can You Do This Work While You Are Seeing a Therapist?

Can You Do This Work While You Are Seeing a Therapist?

People ask me this carefully, in a lowered voice, as though they might be about to confess to something. Am I allowed to do this if I am already seeing someone? Do I have to tell my therapist? Will you mind? Yes, no, and no. Plenty of the people I work with are also...
Breasts, Shame and Being Seen

Breasts, Shame and Being Seen

You could list what is wrong with them right now, without stopping to think about it. Too small. Too low. Too soft. Not what they used to be. One bigger than the other. Most women can produce that list instantly, in order, and have been running it since roughly the...