From pain to pleasure

From pain to pleasure

From the title you might be thinking this is an article about BDSM, but its not this is about an experience I had of turning real pain into pleasure. I have been living with chronic pain for over 7 years, over that time I have had a passion to try and heal my...
Why is play so important as an adult

Why is play so important as an adult

 Children love to play, if you watch young children of 3/4 years old you will often notice that they dont worry about what people think of them, they are just in the moment, finding the things that facinate them the most and following that.  And when they are bored of...
The too much woman

The too much woman

Have you ever been called too much? I have. And for years I thought that there was something wrong with me, that I was too much. I was too loud so I quietened down. I wanted sex too much so I stopped asking. I wanted pain too much so (I love BDSM and receving pain),...
The masks we wear

The masks we wear

Do you ever feel like you are wearing a mask? Or do you ever find that you are one type of person with your colleagues, another with your friends, another with your family, and another with your partner?  And it even can get more complicated than that, certain friends...
Distance from your body

Distance from your body

Have you heard of the phrase “Being in your body”?  If you have been around the personal development world or been on spiritual training you may well have heard this phrase. But what does it mean in reality? First of all, let us look at what it might look...