Still Single, Still Longing

Still Single, Still Longing

This is for the man who has been in love before, maybe more than once. Who has had relationships, real ones, and still finds himself on his own, wondering quietly why none of them ever lasted. I am a woman, so I will not pretend to know from the inside what that is...
Lonely Together, Lonely Apart

Lonely Together, Lonely Apart

When a long relationship ends, the advice arrives quickly. Get back out there. You will meet someone. The right person will come along and the ache will lift. Plenty of men have tried that and found it was not true. I am a woman, so I will not pretend to know from the...
Erectile Dysfunction: Beyond Medical Approaches

Erectile Dysfunction: Beyond Medical Approaches

If you’re experiencing erection difficulties, you’ve probably already been to your GP. You may have tried medication. Perhaps it helped, or perhaps it addressed the blood flow but not the anxiety, the disconnection, or the pattern that keeps...
Porn Recovery and Authentic Sexuality

Porn Recovery and Authentic Sexuality

If your relationship with pornography has become compulsive, if it feels less like a choice and more like a need, you’re not alone, and there is a way forward that doesn’t involve shame, willpower or white-knuckling your way through.Beyond the Shame...