by Melanie Knight | May 19, 2026
If you’re going through menopause and your sexual life feels like it’s falling apart, I want to offer you a completely different way of looking at what’s happening. What if the changes in your body aren’t a decline? What if they’re an... 
by Melanie Knight | Apr 28, 2026
There is a story our culture tells about women and ageing that goes something like this: your sexual peak happens in your twenties or thirties, and after that it is all downhill. By the time menopause arrives, the assumption goes, desire dries up along with everything... 
by Melanie Knight | Jan 27, 2026
When Everything Changes at Once You’ve noticed it creeping in. The heaviness that wasn’t there before. The pressure when you stand too long, when you cough, when you lift your grandchild. Perhaps you’ve already been told you have a prolapse, or... 
by Melanie Knight | Oct 9, 2025
When Your Body Used to Work This Way You used to be able to orgasm. It wasn’t always easy, but it happened. You knew what it felt like. You had a reference point. Your body worked that way. And then… it stopped. Maybe it happened gradually—orgasms becoming...