Hi, I'm Melanie

My story

Turning 50 in 2021 was a milestone. In some ways, it feels like a decline - arthritis has been my companion for years now, chipping away at my body's flexibility and mobility. But 50 has also granted me access to the wisdom I lacked in my youth. I've finally created the life I want - one filled with intimacy.

The journey wasn't easy. My past relationships followed a similar arc, with initial vitality giving way to stagnation. I was usually the partner longing for more sexual connection. I found an outlet in BDSM's liberating expression, but also grappled with a deeper lack of intimacy and self-worth.

I spent years carrying shame, convinced I was unlovable and unworthy. My body was a source of distress, not pleasure. But through diligent inner work over the last 15 years, I've forged a new relationship with myself and found acceptance.

Now I feel empowered to practice transformational living with my Tantric partner, honouring each other in full. I teach others as a Sexological Bodyworker and Tantric expert, living my purpose of igniting sexual wellness. After 50, I'm not in decline but continuing to unfold, embracing the wisdom of my years through self-discovery. There are always new depths to plumb as I contribute to others' sexual and erotic awakening.

Experience and Qualifications

  • Landmark Coach and Ex-SELP Leader
  • Tantric training of over 6 years, including Tantric Massage
  • Clean Language Facilitator
  • Sexological Bodyworker (CSB & CSSE)
  • Trainer  with the The School of Somatic Sexology
  • Board Member of the ACSB (Association for Certified Sexological Bodyworkers)
  • Reccomended Supervisor by the ACSB
  • Selected as a "Top Sex Coach" by Coach Foundation.

My Journey to loving my body

Words | live by

"When you know your true divine nature, you live it fully, giving freely of yourself without ego."
Deepak Chopra

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